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I Have No Regrets

Last night, I sat at the Cornishe Marina in Doha waiting for something to happen at the strike of midnight. Some fireworks, some bangs, something! I was with friends whom were nothing but good and supportive of me since I’ve been to Qatar. I called my parents and siblings back in California to wish them a happy new year, discussing my brother and his wife blessing our family with a grandson/nephew.

In the odd silence of the evening, I found myself reflecting on my adventures and challenges throughout the past year. I realized that of all the things I experienced – from working on my first national sports event to moving to Qatar – I learned about dealing with people the most. It reminded me of a quote I read recently,

“The worst regret we have in life is not for the wrong thing we did, but for the thousands of right things we did for the wrong people!” –Anonymous

Despite all the good, bad and ugly I came across in people this past year, the said quote for me remains untrue. I would rather continue doing the right things for the wrong people then any wrong thing to anyone at all.

Personally, I have no regrets. I’ve learned from the wrong people so that I can continue to be the right person. I’m learning everyday on dealing with people in a world where many cultures and ideologies collide. I thought of those people, of what I’ve experience and of what I’ve learned.

With those, I knew what my 2013 resolutions would be:

Socially: While doing the right things by them, I need to push away the negative people aside to keep the positive people closer. I simply can not waste my time (and breathe) on people whom in the end do not care about anyone but themselves. I’ll be a little busy surrounding myself and supporting those that support me regardless.

Career Wise: I’m going to be doing something different and slightly outside my comfort zone. I already took the big step last summer so now, I just have to take the bull by the horns and run with it. Not to fear the challenge to come ahead but to face it head on. I’m up to it. I know I am!

Personally: I plan to continue what I started in 2012, living by the lovely Italian theory of “L’arte d’arrangiarsi”… the art of making something out of nothing. Start by doing something fresh and different every month, every week, every day.

Midnight struck and nothing happened. No fireworks, no bangs, nothing at all. Friends quietly wished each other a happy new year as everyone started heading home. I was a little disappointment but then again, I didn’t come to Qatar for the fireworks or the bangs.

I have no regrets.

Happy 2013!

LinkedIN’s 2012 Top Over-Used Buzz Words

Before I begin, I’d like to thank Krista Canfield for reaching out to me to write this post. As you all well know, LinkedIN has an annual list of “buzz” words over-used by 135+ million users globally. I wrote a short piece last year when it aired on 7Live in San Francisco, CA. To be asked by Krista personally to write about the list again this year is an honor… so Thank You Krista!

LinkedIN’s 2012 Top Over-Used Buzz Words
By: Ms. Hala

 

It’s that time of year again when LinkedIN shares the year’s top over-used “buzz” words. Remember last year it was words like “creative”, “effective” and “track record” that topped the list. Do you think some of these words are still up there on top this year? Are you thinking of laminating your profile or resume (excuse me, I mean to say CV as it is said outside of the states) with these words? Did you follow Krista’s tips from last year to fix up your profile? Let’s find out!

According to LinkedIN, in the United States, these are the top over-used buzz words:

LinkedIN USA 2012

It really surprised me that the top three words for the US haven’t budged. I mean, “creative” is the number one word again… really? People, did we not talk about this last year? Don’t say you are “creative”, BE CREATIVE! Showcase your talents by using some of the helpful apps on LinkedIN to sprouse up our profile. The saying does state, “actions speak louder than the word ‘creative’!”

Let’s take a look at what the trends been like around the world this year…

LinkedIN Worldwide 2012

Seems the word “creative” was used across the globe almost as much as it was within the United States. In the Middle East region where I’m currently residing, the top words were “motivated” and “multi-national”. I’m not surprised with the later being on top in the area as the Middle East region is becoming more and more diverse with people from around the world tapping into the vast growing economy there. That’s why I’m here!

Curious what my profile looks like nowCheck it out!

My sincere readers, time to fix up your LinkedIN profile! Don’t create it and forget it either, constantly update you profile and keep it active, even after you’ve landed that awesome job! If you haven’t already, fix up your resume and upload it to your LinkedIN profile. This way, you are showcasing your experiences, talents and track record to the LinkedIN community. I would also recommend utilizing some of the new sections of the profile that’s been added over the year such as Projects and Organizations.

Remember the tips stated last year, being honest about your skill set and track record, simple but personable picture and linking between both your resume and profile.

Here’s to 2013… let’s get to work!

 

Sources:

 Krista Canfield, Senior Manager, Corporate communications (Consumer PR)

Top Ten Overused Professional Buzzwords 2012